Hello! I’m Holly Tuyls, Certified Holistic Coach and founder of Queen of Coins Holistic Money Coaching, LLC.
I mentor women in creating calm, confidence, and clarity with money in alignment with the softness, beauty, and power of their Feminine gifts.
I spent much of my adulthood experiencing intimidation, avoidance, scarcity, victimhood, and confusion around my finances.
Despite being well-educated, highly-intelligent, and committed to personal development, the financial realm felt too yucky, confusing, and overwhelming.
I lived in poverty, worry, and financial chaos as a single mom on public assistance.
I was controlled by money and through identifying as a helpless victim.
I wasted a lot of time and energy avoiding my finances, unconsciously believing that someone else would rescue me.
I waited years for that magical “someday” while continuously repeating patterns of barely scraping by, lack, and unworthiness, convincing myself that these were somehow more spiritually elevated, and that I didn’t really care about money or success. I downplayed my needs and didn’t know how to access my desires.
My ego and false identity were attempting to protect me and keep me small. In doing so they were keeping me from the truth.
But hidden truths tend to find a way to surface when we are ready to see them.
I found myself moving through a difficult divorce, slowly discovering that I had allowed myself to relinquish my rightful financial and Feminine roles. I had unconsciously avoided taking responsibility for how I was relating to myself, to money, to energy, and to men, and I didn’t realize until my life was falling apart.
I saw, suddenly and shockingly, that *I* was the one creating the very patterns that were keeping me stuck and blocked by control, worry, shame, lack, avoidance, and fear. I had been hiding that from myself by blaming, judging, and projecting onto another person.
I was brought to my knees in pain, despair, and heartbreak in order to see the deeply ingrained patterns that I needed to change in my relationship with money and with how I was viewing myself, men, and God.
This was the catalyst I needed.
I committed to this journey. I started learning everything I could about personal finance. Most importantly, I invested in myself and took action in alignment with what I was learning.
I saved my first $1000, then my first $2000, then my first $10,000. I paid off over $70,000 in debt. I learned how to invest and regularly practiced doing so in ALL of the ways.
I watched my net worth begin to grow and my identity begin to transform.
I addressed my mindset and my limiting beliefs, I let go of old money stories and began to write new ones through my actions. I addressed the emotional patterns around money that had been keeping me looping. I learned how to internally posture and to cherish and honor my feelings, needs, and desires. I learned to contemplate and to express myself cleanly and clearly without blame, judgement, story, or projection. I invested heavily in mentorship and coaching.
I have grown my personal net worth by multiple 6-figures!
Now I guide women to holistically heal their relationship with money, and to create ease, security, abundance, joy, confidence, clarity, and financial peace within themselves, in their relationships, and in their businesses.
I grew up in the country, and then a small town, in Wisconsin, as the oldest of 5 children, rooted in family and faith.
My dad was a shift-worker in the paper mill, while my mom tended to us and our home. We went to church every Sunday. We often took in people or animals in need. Everyone worked hard and we lived by Midwestern family values.
I learned about aligning personal values with money, wise stewardship of resources, moving with care, integrity, dedication, and commitment, and the value and beauty of the complementary circuitry between Masculine and Feminine energy from my parents. Through my journey with money I have slowly learned to see and receive the lasting value of these gifts.
I love being outside in nature, cooking healthy meals from scratch, reading, writing, and reflecting, practicing yoga, walking, lifting weights, and surrendering into rest, pleasure, and softness.
I have received, held, and multiplied money to create a lifestyle for myself, and for my daughter, in alignment with my faith, my vision, and my values.
I’m a Certified Holistic Coach through the International Coaching Federation. I’ve completed UW-Madison’s Financial Coaching Foundations program. I graduated magna cum laude from Lawrence University, where I pursued degrees in English and Education.
I homeschooled my daughter, who has special needs, and I will continue to care and support her as she moves through life. I have held this great responsibility while also expanding myself financially - I know from my own experience that complete financial transformation IS possible, regardless of demanding and challenging life circumstances.
I have practiced yoga - and later became certified to teach - for three decades.
I believe that as women, healing our relationship with money heals our relationship with our true creative power, with our Femininity, with men, and with God - and that we must shift ourselves first to experience the change we desire to experience in the world.
This is the greatest spiritual responsibility of our time.
I know that scarcity, fear, and lack are faulty and distorted programs designed to keep us in disconnection from our true nature and design.
It’s up to each of us to break free from this conditioning and to create expanded ways of being in abundance, first for ourselves and for our families. Doing so is what serves the highest good of all.
I desire to walk fully in my God-given purpose, to deepen into my fullest becoming as a woman, to receive gracefully and gratefully, and to expand my impact though powerfully serving women and creating a legacy for my daughter to receive elevated, loving care when I am no longer here.
Now, what about you?
What do you desire? What are you creating? Who are you being? What do you see possible for yourself? How will you impact your family, your community, and the world through healing your relationship with money and beyond?
You are needed in your fullest, clearest financial and Feminine depth, expansion, and expression.
The time is now.
I would love to partner with you. Reach out to deepen into this work together.
